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Long moans, yelps, grunts, clicks, mews, hisses and squeaks are the main auditory communications of prehensile-tailed, Brazilian porcupines<\/a>. Quill rattling and tooth shattering as well. The latter, combined with squeaks of delight and yelps of surprise could be heard from this human as well, during a rodent-rich day of rejoicing at the zoo. A day punctuated by heavy rains and cold wind, while we were doing our annual pilgrimage to a zoo in celebration of our very first date at the Bronx Zoo <\/a>42 years ago.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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These animals, who can hang with their tail from trees where they spend most of the day sleeping, hidden in the high canopy of South American rainforests, forage at night. The single offspring per breeding cycle is highly dependent on the mother, nursed for weeks before introduced to solid foods, fathers mostly absent. In general, a pretty reclusive and solitary species, with no known predators other than humans and stray dogs who eat them if they can find them (often getting infected at the point with the horrible Chagas disease, since the porcupines carry the kissing bug that transmits it.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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They were not the only rodents we encountered. The flamingos had fled into shelter from the deluge, with a single specimen ignoring the downpour. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Time for the rats to come out – they were everywhere, making good use of the food offerings temporarily abandoned by the birds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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In case you wondered why I’m writing about rats, you can stop now. I am really writing about rituals today. Or, more specifically, rituals in relationships, which turn out to be of enormous value to the longevity of the union, and, more importantly, to the emotional well being of the partners and greater relationship satisfaction. When I say rituals, I am referring to activities that we frame as having some symbolic meaning<\/a> – me getting downstairs in the morning with coffee already made for me could be a shared routine, or it could be a ritual, if I see it as a gesture that implies a daily commitment to nurturing or some such. Routines don’t have the same positive effect on relationships. What elevates them to rituals is really the shared idea<\/em> of what motivates the behavior, agreed upon by both partners, which in turn leads to more commitment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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As it turns out, commitment then fosters the duration of a relationship. Which, in turn, benefits psychologically all involved, including the potential entire family system, and the physical well being of the partners into older age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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It doesn’t have to be something big, like Zoo Day has been for us, on an annual basis. Or ways you celebrate birthdays in the family, with rituals extending across generations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It can be your Friday night Pizza date<\/em>, if not just a routine, or something as ridiculous as the two of us moving plastic trolls around the house<\/a> to unconventional locations to surprise the other when they are down. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Since 1982 .we have also been known to engage in multiple exchanges of fortune cookies before we open the ones offered with a Chinese meal, just grabbing them from the other, with no specified iterations. It is completely senseless, not even an in-joke, since we don’t know what the joke would be, and neither one of us remembers the origins, but it is utterly reassuring to be able to predict the ritual will unfold. Knowing each other, sharing, immutable reliance on the familiar interaction<\/em> – it all makes me – us – happy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rodents, rituals, rain – the rare, ravishing day. So grateful for positive occasions in a world that currently offers even more than the usual share of horrors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Music<\/a> today is a cover of a Villa-Lobos song from Brazil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And another piece, for the fun of it, Natania Davrath<\/a> adding to the repertoire of sounds mentioned today, with the most beautiful of them all. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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